Red wine

C&G <3 • Whelp we are a comfy family of 4
So I've been getting mixed messages from my group of pregger gals. A few have a glass of red wine maybe 2x a month others won't go near alcohol, some say red wine is good for your lil one others say even a single glass can cause problems. So i went to my doc and he said "we really don't know there isnt any REAL research here in the states so just dont chance it"....... looking for other thoughts and opinions.