Herpes

My bf and I have been together for a month and a half now and I just got told I have herpes. I have very painful sores and cuts and I’m just constantly uncomfortable and in pain. We have no idea how I got it, neither of us recall cold sores or anything and he personally has never been tested for herpes but wouldn’t he have it once he has sex with me at this point anyways? The doctor told me they wouldn’t test him unless I have another outbreak once we have sex again, but like, even if somehow he doesn’t have it now, he’s gonna have it, will he have an outbreak too, idk I’m confused

**UPDATE**

So test results came back positive for chlamydia and herpes. What do we do now? We’re both being treated for the chlamydia but he thinks he has a blister today and thought he had one a couple days ago but it went away