I really just want to get everyone’s honest opinion about how their mariages and relationships are going . I don’t know if my expectations are just set too high or what. I have been dating my fiancé for six years and we are engaged, living together and expecting our first. The first two years of our relationship was truly perfect and he was super caring spent so much time with me, even though we were four hours apart we will travel nearly every weekend to surprise each other. Later on everything changed. He’s now struggling to spend time with me. He’s always busy , he likes hanging out with friends and at one point he cheated coz he was frustrated I didn’t want to have a child for him. We spoke about it two years ago he changed and we moved in. Now I am pregnant but he is hardly ever there for me the way I want him to. He helps out with chores and baths me at times. We are always fighting specifically coz he doesn’t spend any bonding time with never ever and loves drinking out with friends nearly every day which I don’t like. Now what I want to know is, is that how relationships get after a long time or I have the right to be hurt? Or how do I handle this