Dad favoritism!

Is anyone dealing with this too?

I always hear that it switches back and forth, but to be honest I have never been the favorite to my one year old. He is always clinging to dad, always screaming if I have to pick him up instead.

Just last night I was up with him and comforted him through being sick (it was a rough night!) And he still acts like I'm just dad's placeholder. At some point I wonder what I'm doing wrong, I love him so much.

It's hard not to take it personally when I'm with him pretty much 24/7! Even if I leave for a while for errands, he doesn't seem fazed or excited to see me when I come home.