my ex

so i broke up with him over the summer because i was out of state for all summer and i felt like my feelings kinda faded. well they didn’t after seeing him again and we remained friends, we hung out, went to the fair, everything was good. until he started hanging out w douches and we drifted, argued all that so we cut ties and kinda disliked each other. that was about late august. so now we’ve been cool. we talked occasionally in october and now we’re kind of how we were in the beginning of our relationship. really flirty and i’m wondering if i should or shouldn’t do this again. we had a LOT of drama and arguing in august and i don’t wanna go through that again and i’m sure he doesn’t want to either. but i don’t know i’m finding him a lot more attractive (i don’t mean looks i just mean him in general, the way he acts, carries himself, etc.) than i ever thought when we were together. what should i do? he’s also the guy i lost my virginity too so i’m still kind of sexually attracted to him as well.