Wow so much for cutting my hair now 😒

I wanted to touch up my hair but this time cut it a little short maybe breast length around there. Because sometimes I get tired of having long hair (almost to my waistline currently) and plus we’re starting a new year so hey why not right. Sooo I was talking about it with my family and my aunt was like “no don’t cut it we’re fat people it won’t suit our face, not everyone looks good with short hair” i tried to laugh it off even though it kind of bothered me inside. I have gained some weight so I yes my face has changed some what and that’s why she said it. So idk anymore 😞😒