How long did your husbands stay with you after the baby was born? Did he stay overnight? Or if he didn't how much of the time was he there compared to not? Talking with mine and really getting worked up about his reaction to it.  I don't expect him to stay the entire time but I'd like him there for me. He's making it seem like they don't stay at all, which I know isn't the case.  Even him not staying overnight im okay with.. I mean the first night that would be great and I'd like him there. But I want him to be home and comfortable and get to sleep in bed the rest of the time. Just feel like he expects to hardly be there because 'no guy ever stays'.  I just feel weird about how he's talking about it and it's kinda making me upset.. Or like I'm wrong for asking him to be there for me... Btw this is our first child.....