How did you get diagnosed with PCOS?


I've got to schedule a doctor appointment to get checked out. My hormones are crazy after coming off birth control and TTC. Lots of hair loss, facial hair, and lack of period since I came off the pill 3 months ago. I've been tracking opks and no positives. I'm terrified of going to the doctor and what they'll say or do. Do I have to wait until after I've been TTC for 1 year before helping me? What do you think they'll do? Is it time to get checked out?