40+ and in a dilema

Katerina

Im almost 41 and I have a 14 yr old daughter and 12 month old son. Last week I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. It wasnt planned and was quite a shock when we found out I was pregnant but we grew fond of the idea to have a playmate for my son! Now, I dont know if we should try again or just accept that we are done!!! Are we pushing our luck to try for another... ????