overthinking???

my gf and i are constantly arguing about the same things it feels like. she thinks i’m the problem and i think she’s the problem.

i’m always coming second to her friends. she always chooses her friends over me. when we chill with them she barely even acknowledges me. and when she does she’s mean and snarky towards me which makes me mad. and in result her friends just assume i’m ALWAYS being a bitch. always. but i’m only bitchy because my gf makes me angry. she says since her and i live together she sees me more than she sees her friends ( which isn’t entirely true, her and i work opposite schedules and she sees her friends at least once a day, and most of them work together). like we can’t even go get food without her inviting her friends. but when i say anything to her about i’m being possessive and clingy. not to mention her friends treat me like absolute shit and have no respect for our (4 year) relationship.

am i being crazy?? i don’t think i am.