No pap?

I went to the doctor today because of sexual issues. She just did some swabs. Me and my husband broke up back in January and I contracted trichomoniasis by my old hook up partner. We used protection but I still contracted it. A few months later after I was treated me and my husband got back together and all that. We both got tested beforehand and we were both clean. But the past couple of months I’ve been bleeding during sex. With a bit of pain. Like he can’t get deep anymore because it hurts. There was a rough spot on my cervix and it’s seemed to get bigger so she tested me for any STDs again. I guarantee you I have BV because I always have it.... shit never goes away. Anyways I turn 21 in January and she didn’t want to do a pap until then so she made an appointment for after I turn 21. Should I have pushed harder for a pap? Because cervical cancer runs in my family? It should I just wait until the 24th of Jan? I don’t want pain during sex until then. Sex is still fun and great. But pain kills my mood and we can no longer get the position that makes me cum. Idk I feel like I should’ve pushed harder for the test. Idk