Fertility appointment

Sarah • 30 Married to my beautiful wife. My wife and I went through a sperm bank to conceive our daughter, who she carried. I am currently pregnant with our second :)

So my wife and I had our first fertility appointment today! We were so excited about it and it went very well. I am struggling with one thing though and I can’t help but be upset. Our doctor told us that the sperm bank that we were going to go through is one he WOULDN’T recommend. WOULDN’T!!!!!!! I’m at a lost. We had a donor who checked all our boxes and we were so happy and set with. I guess it’s time to start looking again.