I feel so bad... I need advice ASAP!!!

So me and my bf have been together for a year and we are both 18. We have arguing a lot and I feel unwanted and lonely. He doesn’t talk to me and when we get on FaceTime he never focuses on me he always had to be doing something else. He said it’s because he not a talkative person but he can have long and interesting conversations with everybody but me. And it’s it like I’m a shy person or don’t like to talk because I’m a very outgoing and talkative person and i can talk about anything with anyone but when it comes to him and I try to talk about things he’s interested in and I try to start conversations with him he tells me I’m irritating or I’m doing to much. So lately I just stop doing things that I did at first because everything I did was irritating nd I didn’t want to get on his nerves. I’ve changed so much through the course of our relationship just to make him happy. He never calls me beautiful or gorgeous, he doesn’t ask me how my day was I have to just tell him, he never wants to spend money on me but every time he ask me for money or food or a ride somewhere I go running to him without hesitation. I just feel like our relationship is one sided and I’m just feel like I’m by myself. I don’t want to lose him we have talked about this stuff but it’s like he doesn’t care. Idk how to tell him him a way that he will actually listen to me.

So I just started working 2 jobs so I can get a new car and a apartment. There’s this guy that works with me and we’ve been smoking together and just talking and our conversations can last for hours. I feel bad because I only started hanging out with him because I need somebody to talk to. I feel really guilty and idk if I should tell my bf or not.

PLEASE HELP!!!!