This will be our very first baby, a lot of family friends wants to donate their used baby stuff to us but I dont want to accept them as I want to buy my own since this is my first baby. We have saved enough money for this baby and I really wanted to enjoy shopping for my future baby and I dont want them to feel bad too. Even my mother in law doesnt want us to buy a new crib because a relative wants to give her baby's stuff to us which I dont like.... Please dont hate me but I really dont like the color of it. I want to buy something that I will enjoy looking at and I want to give the best for my baby. 😔 I dont want them to feel bad and I dont even want to hear things from them that we are picky, I know that my baby will only use this baby stuff for a while but I can still pass it on to my future children too.