Update!!!! Done...just DONE with childish games

I have no one to talk to, no know who would be unbiased and tell me either I’m right to feel this way or shake me around and tell me to just let it be. So here’s the situation: my husband plays video games while I work my ass off. We both work full time, we both bring home about the same amount each paycheck, we both work for what we want. He works from 7am-3:30pm and I work from 7:30am-6pm. He gets home and plays his video games. I get home and have to cook dinner, clean up afterward, put away leftovers, and get myself ready for bed. This is an everyday thing for us. He doesn’t get off his video game until dinner is ready or even after I’m done eating (I’m a slow eater). I’ve tried several times to tell him that it would be nice to have dinner cooked for me for once (he knows how to cook) but he always says he’s too tired. We both have jobs where we’re on our feet all day. On the weekends he plays his video games. On the weekends I do laundry, the dishes, and all the other household stuff. When I ask him to clean out the litter box or take out the trash he always says “I’ll get to it later” when clearly he is just playing his video game. Well last night I said something again about him spending so much time on his game and it blew up in my face just like every other fight we have. I’m to the point of either saying something that might ruin our entire relationship or just keeping quiet and we just act like roommates who never talk to each other. We’ve been together for 4 years and married for 2 years. We’ve been TTC for the past 2 years also but every time I have a good feeling during a cycle, something stressful like this comes up which gets me doubtful about the entire effort. I feel like he chooses his video game over me. Please help y’all! Am I being stupid or is there some truth behind how I feel?

Update #1: Thank you all so much for the opinions and comments. I’m talking to him tonight about all of my frustration lately. So far I’ve tried to express how I feel and it’s just going in one ear and out the other. So we shall see how this convo goes tonight. Thank you for the support everyone!

Update #2: So we talked about everything and agreed on a compromise for several different things. On another note, I saw several of you saying that my husband isn’t emotionally there for us as we’re TTC. I have no doubt in my mind that he wants to be a father just as much as I want to be a mother. The conversation we had tonight made me think about our relationship as a whole and just how much we love each other no matter what life throws at us. We need to make time for each other and this baby we’re trying to conceive. We both see that and we are both going to try harder. He’s going to help me out with household chores and I’m going to change a few things as well so we can make more time for baby dancing and just spending time together as a couple. For everyone who commented, thank you for your help again. 😊