My husband cheated. I found sexy and vulgar pictures of his ex in his phone he claimed he just talked to her and she sent pictures without him asking he says it was a year ago but he saved it in his private folder and the time stamps say june and july of when he put them in him folder but he claimed he saved them all the same day and hasn't talked to her since and that he blocked her when she sent them. She says he talked to her for 2-3 months and he said he wasn't happy and she new we was together but she apologised but both of them are snakes so what am I supposed to believe.

He didn't tell me I found them myself because of a feeling I had.

Doesn't matter how I found out he was never going to tell me. He apologised and told me his side. I told him I want a divorce and he said I could have everything, he deleted all his media and everything but kept the pictures at the time she got a bf is what she said.

So he officially deleted everything now but he admits he shouldn't have talked to her and he said he messed up and he cant change it but I love him I have kids with him. I don't know why I want to stay but who wouldn't my life and kids are with him. I need encouraging words. He knows he is caught and he is fine with me leaving him but he said he blocked her and everything after it happened because he loves me and he never ment for it to go there. I said if he really loved and respected me then he wouldn't have unblocked her got her snap and talked to her behind my back. But she has a new bf and that's the real reason she stopped. I want to divorce him and maybe date him to see how that works but I'm not sure if I'd rather just stay his wife or not.

I don't want a relationship I want him I don't even get attracted to anyone else its just hard

I have pics and I have a video talking to her about everything

No I didn't blame her but they both knew I just wanted truth and I think she is slightly telling truth

I will update in the post

My update is I found at least 6 dating profiles, 3 snapchats, 2 hiding apps and all of which he has done within a year. I didn't get any of the conversations because he deleted them but we already know.

He cheated on me majorly like I don't even understand how someone can hate me so much.

All I've ever done was been faithful and take care of us and he just tossed in the towel

This is all I'm aware of though not what he all done