Put yourself in my situation. Here’s the story⬇️

You and your family of four get evicted for none payment back in October..

Due to your SO being out of work and it being extremely hard finding work in a Small Town.

You then have to live separately due to your family having problems with your SO.

Therefore he goes and stays with his Pal “Jim” and hour away.

Jim will always have a open door for your SO.

You all go your separate ways...

A month goes by and it’s getting harder and harder to stay in contact.

You are both depressed from your own problems.

Your SO is having trouble finding work in the new city he lives in due to him or Jim having nof transportation to get to and from work. So he had applied to places in walking distance with no luck of getting a call back.

You have just started a new job nights in a healthcare facility working 12 hour shifts.. your family watches your kids while you work and get some sleep during the day. Your family have recently told you, you have no choice but to bring your kids to a babysitter because they cant watch them anymore. Which isn’t going to work because it’s taken money way from what you are saving to move out and you don’t trust anyone with your kids due to childhood haunts

You cry from stress once a day..

Your SO can’t watch the kids because Jim has other roommates whom have very mean dogs that bite and you just don’t want your kids getting hurt... Jim is also introducing your SO into some bad habits up there. Depression maybe leading him too. He smokes his days away.. and has recently tried Spice. Telling you straight away and promised to never do it again.

Today you haven’t spoken to your SO all day long him saying he was asleep because him and Jim stay up all night and sleep all day.

You finally give him a call and see what’s going on and you get disconnected. So you text him ⬇️

At this point you just don’t know what to do.. or how to handle this anymore.

What advice would you want someone to tell you in this situation ?