Men grief differently then we do. It’s harder for us because we were growing our baby and experienced the symptoms involved in it. My husband has been the same as your with the 4 of my pregnancy losses. The current one he’s being a lot more supportive. I just told him how I felt, to not negate my feelings that I understand we grieve differently just let me grieve how I do and just hug me and let me cry when I need to. I told him I understand you do see this as a baby loss but you telling me this only makes me feel worse and he’s understand and has gotten better with allowing me to grieve how I need. Just have to be open with communication. It’s not that we are dwelling on it. Loosing a baby isn’t easy and we don’t just “get over it and move on” it takes time. Just be patient with yourself and explain to your husband to be patient with you also it’s what you need. I’m praying for you and your hubby I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️🙏🏻