Hi lovelies. Hope everything is going well with all your littles. Heidi’s main issue right now is sleep regression. These first 3 months were a breeze until now! I feel like I have a cup of cold brew in my hand at all times now a days 😂 ANYWAYS! I was wondering if any of you guys had budgeting/money saving tips? I’m only 21 and my husband and I live with our in laws, half of the week at my in laws and half of the week at my parents (we jump back and forth because when we’re in one spot for too long they hassle us for not visiting :/ ) and it’s been rough not having any privacy other than our bedrooms and constantly being around family. I think it’s sending me over the boiling point and I feel like we need our own space hopefully this year. My husband is very upset with me on the daily because I always bring up how unhappy I am with our situation and says he hates coming home to a crying wife everyday...so I’ve been trying not to talk about my sad emotions and just live in the moment whenever he’s around. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t really care if I’m sad because it’s just about the same thing. I don’t want to say I’m depressed but I could be doing better...Our relationship has changed so much since moving in with our families to save money and I’m worried things could take a turn for the worst. It’s not that I don’t like either family, but it’s hard to implement boundaries. at his house, if I go to the bathroom and baby starts crying, I’ll come back to 5 people in my room playing pass the baby :/

Being an introvert, it’s really hard to say anything and I feel like I can’t turn to my husband anymore because it just makes him mad.

We’re looking to get a house in the countryside for about $200,000-300,000 and we already have $1,475 saved up. Any tips on saving money, dealing with in-laws, and just downright being happy would be appreciated! Thanks all. Sorry for the spiel 💕