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Im 12 weeks pregnant but I decided to leave my boyfriend .. i dont want him at any appointments , gender reveal , babyshower or even around me during this pregnancy.. i did tell him he can come to the birth and be in his child life after... am i wrong for this ? He is verbally abusive, manipulator, and a cheater and I had enough !!!

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If all is true, I'd keep baby away from him as well and go through court to figure out an arrangement.

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No you are not wrong . If he's as you said I wouldn't even put him on the birth certificate.

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I would not invite him to appointments but update him on them after. Although you aren’t together it’s still just as much his baby as yours but you also need to keep your stress level low for baby.

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I don’t let my girls father at any appointments and he only got to come to my 20 week scan because his mom asked me and I felt bad keeping that from him. He won’t be allowed in the room when I give birth because he constantly wants to argue. So no you aren’t wrong. I do text him and let him know what the drs say at appointments since it’s his child but other than that I don’t talk to him. I’ll do be taking him to court for custody and child support because I don’t trust him to pick up addy and then bring her back without being court ordered to

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