Dont believe in marriage?

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I don’t believe in marriage. I never wanna get married. Its a waste of time because if u dont work out ur gunna get a divorce anyways

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I think it’s a personal preference. I believe getting married doesn’t change anything about the relationship.

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I think that if you live with that mindset a possible marriage is going to fail. Marriage isn’t the paper or the wedding ring. It’s the commitment that you make to someone, declaring that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with them. Marriage is fighting through the hard times because you’re committed, compromising, loving unconditionally. It’s so much harder to just get up and leave when you’re married, and it makes you push yourself and the other person to resolve your problems. Marriage isn’t the reason why marriages fail. People are the ones who make marriage look like something unnecessary or scary. I’m fact it’s the most beautiful thing. You do you of course, but there is demo thing truly amazing about being married to someone. It’s a whole new level of living someone and it makes you see the world in a different light!

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I used to be the same way until I met someone who I knew was worth it...you’ll find that person someday.

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Signing a piece of paper and having a party doesn't change the relationship. But if you plan to buy a house together, make medical decisions, etc. Then getting married makes all that way easier

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Ok?

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I understand and completely support your decision. 
I only have one question: do you believe in relationships?

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I’m happily married. 
If you have a bad relationship to begin with, then no, it wouldn’t be smart to be married. But many couples have happy marriages. 
Many couples are also happy not being married. Many couples don’t like marriage, and that’s perfectly fine. 
But you seem to already have a negative outlook on it. 
Do you believe in relationships?

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Then don’t get married.

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I had that mindset for a long long time. My parents got divorced when I was 13, and all of my aunts/uncles/grandparents are divorced and remarried. I thought divorce runs in my blood, and why open myself up just to get hurt? And waste time and money? And hurt my children the way my parents (unintentionally) hurt me and my brother? 
But deep down I was still a hopeless romantic. And then I started dating my now fiancé. His parents are separated too and he’s been through some of the toughest shit. We’ve been through so much together and I can’t imagine my life or future without him. 
Over time I realized how badly I want to make that commitment to him. I realized I can’t let the fear of divorce and failure run my life. Marriage is WORK, and all of our relatives marriages failed because one or both of them stopped putting the work in. So my commitment to him is that I will wake up and put that work in every day no matter how difficult of a situation we are in - and I’m confident that he will do the same. Just because everyone around us has gotten divorced doesn’t mean that we are doomed to. Just my take on marriage!

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Then don’t get married.

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