So this weekend I came to see my man and before coming I told him I want to do this,this,and this and he had no problem with it.the first day I came everything was cool and then and went left but this always happens.(i was supposed to say Thursday-Tuesday) so I wanted to go out and walk around the town and stuff and all he did was complain is “you know going to this places is money and gas and you want to go to all these places with no money and things and another thing was I was fixing my hair and things in the room he comes in and looks at me and says “is that all you can do?” And walks back out. As well as when we’re in the car and he’s driving I get scared and I tell him “I’m in the car can you drive a little more safe” he “says who do you think you are” “ is your life more important than mines” and things like that.i think he’s a little controlling like if I’m on my phone texting someone or just on it he gets mad and sees who I’m texting and what I’m doing and if I ask to see he’s phone he gets very protective over it and things but he says the only reasons why he does and says things like this is because he loves me and he’s telling me the truth because no one else will.

P.s he’s older than me and things and he is very controlling about what I wear,who I hang out with and things especially if it’s guys I think he acts like this because of he’s pass relationship with his ex. And another things is that he says things that he knows I want to hear so I can stay and be with him for example we will I have an argument that’s his fault but he says “oh when I get this money I will buy you anything you want and things” but when it comes to that day he says if I have money to buy it and things like that

Update: so I was on the phone with him sobbing my eyes out just tellin him how toxic he is and how he always criticized me and that we needed to take a break.but now I realize I made a mistake I can’t stop thinkin about him I call him everyday but he gives me the cold shoulder saying how I really hurt him but I told him I was just trying to tell him the honest truth.He was tellin me like he couldn’t sleep a couple of nights and things like that and I feel really bad I told him I still love him and all he says is I heated you but this time it’s different it’s like talking to a stranger I told him I just wanted to get my mind at ease but he said I broke up with him but I believe I didn’t and when I ask him like questions about “oh what you eat today” he just says that’s my personal business and I feel really hurt and I know I hurt him too because he was/is in love with me. I just want our relationship to get stronger and better