Would you be bothered by your SO hanging/talking with their ex?

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I don’t want to be accused of being insecure, I just think it’s weird. If I did the same thing I know he would feel a way. 
We’re not dating we’re in the talking stage so it’s not like he’s cheating on me and I’m not making a huge deal about it but I feel like I should have been given a heads up.

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Well because you're just in the talking stage.. MAKE A RUN FOR IT! Why's he even talking to you without being over his ex? He's probably just keeping you around just in case she actually gets rid of him.

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I'm still friends with most of my exes. At this point it's basically just through Facebook, but I used to talk to a couple of them a lot. It just depends on what they're relationship was like. I think since you're just talking right now it would be good to talk about his relationship with his ex & if he still has feelings for her.

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I think people miss the point when they say they trust their S/Oor they're not concerned he will do anything behind their back. Being faithful is VITAL, but so is RESPECT.

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It really depends on you. Mine is still friends with two of his exs from high school. It’s really no big deal to us but if they were flirting/didnt want me around then i’d have issues

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I trust my husband. So no. I wouldn't mind him talking (just talking) to an ex. I'm not worried.

Would you be bothered by your SO hanging/talking with their ex?

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