How do I make myself fall “out” of love?...

It’s an awful long story and I don’t feel like explaining it all. I fell in love with a guy I only wanted to have a fling with. We are both military long distance but originally from the same state. We even have mutual friends, yet some how we didn’t meet until we were both on leave a couple months ago.

I warned him. Don’t get attached. I don’t want anything more then some fun. Fast forward we both decided to go on vacation together and we both ended up falling in love with each other. We decided we would be “temporary” boyfriend and girlfriend. We both had the most amazing time of our life. We both left on the same day, which was yesterday. I’m back home and I can’t stop crying. I’ve only ever been in love once which was when I was married. I have never cried over a man... I’ve always been very independent. I have never made life choices based on a man. Even now that we are both back home he still calls me babe and tells me he loves me. He will be PCSing in 9 months and I will be PSCing in a year and a half. We could make this work. Except my life is a mess. I can not even give out details because it hurts me so much. So my only option is to get over him. Except I don’t want to. I’m so torn and I can’t stop crying.