When does sex stop hurting and start feeling good after losing virginity?

Question

Okay so I'm 17 years old and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have had sex about 5 times now and every time I don't feel anything I guess pleasurable from it. Also he hasnt been able to fully go in cause I'm tight I guess. But yeah its just frustrating. So when does sex start to feel good and how can he be able to fully go in and actually be able to feel pleasure?

Answer

I really struggled with sex for almost a year. I waited until marriage expecting it to be awesome and really struggled when it wasn’t!! My first few times were much like what you described. Uncomfortable, not pleasurable, and he couldn’t fit very well.
It took lots of foreplay until I was very very very wet and very horny, then working up from 1, then 2 fingers before I was ready to have sex comfortably each time. It really has a lot to do with relaxing your vagina. Even now if he tries to go in before I’ve relaxed, gotten comfortable, and gotten very wet naturally it doesn’t work out for us. Everyone said lube was the answer when I asked, but it wasn’t for us. Lube dries up too fast and has to be reapplied. My natural juices have been plenty most of the time, and when they aren’t I prefer coconut oil. (Although I don’t think you can use oil with condoms!!)

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It started to feel better after about my 10th time😂

Answer

Use lube and engage in plenty of foreplay. Sex should not hurt

When does sex stop hurting and start feeling good after losing virginity?

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