So my hubby does not really like my fam. They are not monsters but they have offended him in the past, nothing super serious and I think he is a little sensitive

Anyway we moved to CT this summer I wanted to have my mom dad &sister over for Thanksgiving. First he said a reluctant ok joked about having all the drinks🍷🍸🍹🍺. Then he said he'd rather not cuz our place isn't 100%(we dont have a coffee table) lastly why would I want to put him around ppl he doesn't like? And if they come he's threatening to not be there.

We left it 2 weeks ago at idc about our place not being 100% neither does my family. I miss them I want to see them. Well fast forward to tonight I very reluctantly remind him now hes pissed! Am I wrong for inviting them I mean I haven't seen my dad in almost 2 years! My mom in 18mos! He makes me feel like I have to choose them or him.... pls help🥺