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Trying to plan my wedding but the way things are going we won't be able to have much more than a courthouse wedding. I've tried to ask for help but haven't found anyone that will? I'm at a loss as to what to do. If our financial situation doesn't improve our wedding isn't going to happen let alone fertility treatment. I've even tried fundraising. What would you do?

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You can get married by court for now and have a reception at some other time. You can also have a small and simple wedding with just you the groom, the parents, bridesmaids, and groomsmen, at the beach

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So the court house wedding and for your 5 or 15 or whenever years together have a big vow renewal and have your big party then

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My husband and I got married in front of a big, beautiful tree outside of our church. It was just me, my then fiancé and our pastor. It was absolutely perfect. Our "wedding" (100 guests and a big, white tent) took place a few months later, and even though I loved it, had I not had it, the first marriage ceremony would have been enough. Find a way to make your day special, and I don't think you will feel like you missed out on anything. Perhaps a courthouse wedding followed by dinner at a fabulous restaurant with close friends and family?

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Have a outdoor wedding reception. Either make it a potluck dinner ( normal people don't have a prob with that ) or just dance and treats at 7:30 instead

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I agree .. Planning a wedding, even if it is very small is stressful. Go to JP & save money for wedding ,vow renewal In future, or baby moon.

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Doing a wedding at the court house is way cheaper. My husband and I agreed that we would have it that way and in ten years when we get on our feet a bit better we would have the wedding I have dreamed about since I was little. It a lot less stress on ur body as well bc u have to worry about everything. u can just have a reception afterwords to. That way ur family could bring u cards with money to help u or even gifts that could help I through out ur house. Just really think about it it really does help out in the long run when ur trying to get pregnant.

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We got lucky in the finance department and even though we don't have a lot of money we have enough to do exactly the wedding we want. However one of my friends is getting married as well but is really short on money. Where we live in myrtle beach sc you can rent a gazebo at the park for 200 dollars and if you clean up afterward they give you all the money back Right Away. Then she is having a potluck dinner in a family members backyard where everyone is bringing a dish. Her wedding is going to be very simple yet really pretty. Also since they can't afford a photographer she is handing out disposable cameras one per household and letting her guests be photographers for a day.

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It is possible to have a small wedding on a very small budget. A backyard wedding would be my choice personally but if that's not your style maybe try a local park or museum, the beach or maybe a lake or pond (possibly a friends)? They usually only charge a small fee. Have a short ceremony, and few guests. If you do any food, stick to finger foods and appetizers or maybe have your guests go to a restaurant afterwards. Try finding any decor online (Craigslist or used wedding decor websites). Hope this helped a little! Keep your hopes up, it can be discouraging but the only thing that really matters on that day is the two of you and how much you love each other!

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We were freaking out about budget, too. You have to ask yourself if you want a fancy wedding or if backyard is okay. We're planning on making the food ourself, then my little brother has been amazing - he is doing photography and found us this private lakeside camp venue we can get for CHEAP through his college ($150/day; he's my hero) and cutting down on venue, catering, and photography helped more than you know. What are you willing to cut? What deals can you find?

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May be cheaper but my fiancé has never been married and wants something more than that. Although we may not have a choice

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