Hey this is my first time on here and I could use a little advice. Im 25 with a decent job, i have a awesome boyfriend of 12 years and my own place. For the past three years i have been wanting a baby LIKE MADD!! My bf says he’s ready he’s just not rushing and I have only put it off due to schooling and due to negative reactions from my parents. I feel as if Im in a good place in life to become a parent i just get so discouraged when i think about how my family will react (some are not at all the supportive type). I guess my question is should I take my life by the horns and be the greatest mom i can be or should i put it off n work more on my career as per my families wishes?