So for a month I had been having a dream that I went through my boyfriends phone and found him talking to someone else. For an entire month I felt absolutely crazy because I never thought he would do that. For a month out of year long relationship, he had been sexually talking to someone else. My dreams have never failed me, and I should have listened to them.

We sat down and talked (I cried and yelled a LOT), but he was honest with me. They never sent pictures, she lives states away so they obviously never did anything in person, and they only talked on social media so they didnt even have one another's phone numbers. I thought long and hard, and decided that we would work it out because it was JUST massages, but some shit would have to change. For example...He was following 1k people on instagram (where I found the messages) mostly girls he didnt even know and a lot with raunchy content. I told him I didnt like that anymore due to him cheating, so he unfollowed over 600 girls. I told him that he was acting like he was about to turn 19, when hes actually about to turn 25. I told him he needed to grow up and his social media needed to reflect that shit.

Since I found out, I've been keeping a close and paranoid eye on his Instagram, and noticed he followed someone back and I got irritated, but then I realized it was this

He wants nothing more than to have a baby, and become a father. But his previous actions weren't reflecting that. I'm hoping this entire thing wasnt in vain, and it was truly a wake up call for him, and all the other changes we talked about will be set in stone. Only a week since I found out and I'm already noticing a huge difference in his actions. I have known this man for 6 years, dating for a little over a year now, and I honestly couldnt see myself with anyone else. He has been so good to except for this one thing, and I'm hoping we move past this in a blink of an eye.