So, I finally decided to do it at the age of 26 with my longterm boyfriend. But things went weird, and I wasn’t sure whether it’s normal or not. Here is the story, we were cuddling, and things got heated, and we decided to try it. We had a semi-short foreplay, and he tried to insert it with a condom. The pain was too much, and it was like a burning wound that has been cut by a paper. He noticed that I’m bleeding too much and stopped and told me. I was only expecting some drops of blood, but man I bled through cover beneath me, as well as the blanket.😫 As I stood up, blood was pouring down, and I was hardly controlling it with tissues, and some dropped on the carpet 😐 (imagine it was an Air B&B🤦🏻‍♀️) I wore a pad and ran to the washroom. Girl lemme tell you, blood was coming down like a waterfall, and big blood clots were also getting out, and it wasn’t my period. Aftermath, I had a really bad cramp for the whole day, and I couldn’t sit down properly. Later that I checked, I found a tear downside of my vagina, but a small one, which is healing now. My question is, is this anything near normal? 😐 Why did it happen?

Ps: I suffer from PCOS, and I use progesterone medicine daily.

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