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My 21 month old is very boob dependent and we bed share. I’ve been trying to wean him but when I deny his night feedings he hits, kicks, pulls my hair, scratches, head butts, and screams and does not stop. I will put a movie on and try to talk to him and eventually he will get distracted with the movie and watch it and stop crying (30+ minutes in) and he won’t fall asleep till near the end of the movie. He does this at about 3am every night now. Today he has been continuing this aggressive behavior with me and it’s killing me. Anyone have experience with this? He isn’t the kind of kid to just cry for 20 mins then be okay..