Thanksgiving am I wrong

Had my baby 6 weeks ago about, not one of my family on either side except for my grandparents have asked about her or came to see her ... I think they are expecting to just see her when I will supposedly arrive to the thanksgiving gathering on either side .. should I go or not ? I don’t think I will because they haven’t even sent a message or a call about her or nothing so I feel I should just not show up and see what they tell my mom dad and sister when they show up without me and my daughter??

Am I wrong ? Or