Threesome Troubles

Evelyn

So me and my SO of 3 years are attempting to do our first MMF threesome. My SO is straight and I’m bi-curious. I’m basically going to be the one looking for the guy and I’ll come to my SO with the options and he gets the pick. But we were discussing where it would take place and we both agreed not in our house because we have roommates. However my SO said that the guy we choose will have to pay for the hotel or motel we end up going to. I’m saying we should be the ones paying for it considering we’re the ones looking for someone to joins us in this. I feel like with this no one will want to have the threesome because they won’t want to pay.

Any opinions would be great.

Since we travel a lot during the summer, my SO says when we’re in another country that he’s paying the hotel, but the thing is of course because we will be staying in one. I feel like he just doesn’t want to have one in the state we live.