To baby shower or not?

Hi! So I had a teen pregnancy and my twins are grown now. I’m 38 and 15 weeks with my second pregnancy, the father has no children of his own. Since there will be a 22 year age gap between my kids, I feel like I’m completely starting all over and I literally have zero baby items! Everyone says I need to have a baby shower and I love the idea since I didn’t really get to experience the typical “baby” festivities the first time, and also since it’s his first baby, but I feel kinda weird about asking for gifts now that I’m financially stable. Any input??