So I’m considering getting my implant taken out due to a miscarriage about 3 months ago and other side affects. My boyfriend was ecstatic when we thought we were pregnant but we knew it probably wouldn’t work because of the implant. These days he regularly talks about me getting pregnant and his mom says something about “our kids” every time I see her. My boyfriend and I talked about when we would want kids and I said in 4 years but he didn’t want to wait that long. I want kids so very badly. I’ve always had a motherly aspect to me. We’re stable and have a home, and two vehicles. So I feel like maybe a kid wouldn’t be so bad. I just don’t know how to bring it up to my boyfriend. I don’t want to just completely stop using birth control but maybe switch to the pill so I could stop at any time. I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 21