Am I enough?

Question

I’m so insecure about myself and I don’t really love myself anymore or take care of myself like I used to. I want to be happy and better but I don’t know how. I always think my boys will leave for someone better and he’s the main reason why I’m still happy despite everything going on in my family.

Answer

You sound emotionally codependent and that’s not healthy. A man doesn’t complete your define you and your happiness, happiness comes from within, you complete and define yourself. Don’t depend on anyone for your happiness or you will surely be let down. Men come and go as do friends. You need to learn that it’s ok to be alone. Life is what you make it, if you aren’t happy, you change what you can and what you can’t change, you learn to love, accept and embrace yourself flaws and all. You will figure it out one day at a time. Keeping yourself busy. Learning to channel your feelings differently from journaling or screaming into a pillow or yoga or exercise. Sometimes you just need a change of prospective and not focus on yourself and your problems but on others. You learn to be grateful for what have and grateful for what you don’t have to deal with like cancer and so many other things. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or read to the blind or children in a hospital etc. read books, get educated. Learn a language. Walk dogs or babysit they will comfort you. Take up a hobby. It will get you out of the house. Things will get better. You are always enough. You never have to doubt that and those that think you aren’t enough don’t deserve to be in your life. You deserve always remember that.

Am I enough?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey