Since I was in labor. My family and my fiancee's family have been there. His family would come 3 times every week or every other week. And yes it was helpful. I appreciate all that they have done. My son is almost 5 months. We have our routine. I recently opened up to my mother in law about how she has done some things that have hurt my feelings and I wanted to tell her because I didn't want to hold it in and be rude to her. Her apology was that she didn't remember a lot of the instances I mentioned and noone has ever called her disrespectful (which I didn't say) and she said I'm sorry my way of showing respect to you is I will stay quiet and just observe. She stopped coming. I called one day to ask her a question and mentioned why she hasn't been coming ( I thought our Concord ended good because I told her that she didn't have to stay quiet. I just wanted her to become aware of this because she might have not been aware of it). She said she wanted to talk to me and her son. I thought she was sick or something. She then said that she wanted to talk about me because she was taken back by the conversation and she put in her two cents and she tried to switch my words around (which I had to say. I didnt say that, this is what I said) .she said all this stuff that will make this story longer. I explained to her my reasoning of the conversation again. She explained her side of the story (all the stuff she didn't remember, and now she all of a sudden does). We moved on. We went to her house this weekend. And my fiancee has Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> and Christmas day off . This is our first Christmas as a family. He told his mom , I told my mom as well. That we wanted to stay home for Christmas, just us. (Thanksgiving we are going to their house) she was sad. (I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY). Anyways, he mentioned he was off on those days and she said that we can come over here for Christmas. He said we're going to stay home. She yelled why. And I said because we want to spend our first Christmas home as a family she said ok in a sarcastic tone and looked at me like was crazy. I feel like she put us on the spot in front of other family members and she knew our plans already. I'm just venting and I'm not sure what to do anymore or if I'm overacting.