Some partners don’t get it


I have a 4 month old & she still wakes up a lot to eat. Sometimes idk if she wakes up cause she has the sensation to suck on something but I still get woken up. This morning she was waking up every hour!! Like I still don’t know what’s sleep! Today we’re going to my in laws for thanksgiving & it’s starting at 8pm... like what?! I’m tired & my boyfriend wants to come home like at 12-1 am & it’s like 45 minutes away. I feel like it hasn’t hit him that things aren’t the same as when you didn’t have a little one. I don’t feel like going for that long, I’m tired & when I tell him that I wanted to come back earlier he sounded kinda upset... am I the only one struggling still?