Hey ladies. Here’s the situation I have found myself in...

I’m a single mom of two awesome little boys. I was married before and we’ve been divorced for almost 7 years. I dated here and there but only had one actual relationship before I met my current boyfriend. He’s a few years younger than me. No kids, never been married. We’ve been living together for over a year and together for almost 2. My kids love him and he is a good guy. But, it feels like we’re stuck. He’s the type that’s just fine staying the same. There’s not a lot of moving forward, growing, or making any commitment beyond what we have now. Getting married is important to me but not to him. We’re in counseling now but we constantly fight over what our future holds. I love him but when do you decide that you’re two people who want different things and just move on? We both deserve happiness and I cannot imagine giving up on what I want out of my life. How do you figure out if you’re just not meant to be?