Feeling very territorial

My induction is Monday night at 6pm... me and my fiancé had an in depth talk about who we want to hold our little girl because we have SO much family and everybody is determined to come visit. We decided we only want our parents and step parents to hold her, but nobody else (siblings, friends, grandparents etc)

I don’t want anybody to think we are being rude but I didn’t ask anybody to get shots like I wanted to, and I’m also a little upset that now I don’t get one on one time with my girl anymore with her being in my belly 😔 this was a very easy pregnancy for me and although I’m ready, it’s so bittersweet that I have to share her with everybody now!

I don’t want anybody to feel left out by not being able to hold her right away but this is my baby... and with so many rsv and flu germs going around I refuse to risk it