Idk what’s wrong...???

Question

Every time I’m horny and go to masturbate I imedeatly get depressed, like realy, then instead of feelin frat....I become sad, idk what to do

Answer

Did you grow up in an environment where they taught you that sex and masturbation is wrong and you shouldn’t do it? My family and my school was catholic and they did that to me and I used to feel bad when exploring my sexuality.

Answer

Social conditioning is a nasty thing. We all hear the messages, even subconciously: you are a slut when you take caee of yourself or enjoy sex, good girls do not do that, good girls do not touch there, your husband will take care of you when you get marries, sex and masturbation is a sin, and so on and so on.
But here is the thing - masturbation is healthy, good, natural, and an important part of growing up and staying healthy. Doctors observed babies masturbating in the womb before they were even born, and may a parent of a toddler will get embarrassed when the toddler masturbates and get an orgasm at the most inopportune time. So now that we have established that it is good, healthy, natural, and you do not even have to be taught how to do it, let’s talk about your inner critic.
Your inner critic is that inner voice that often tries to sabotage you. It tells you things Ike you are a loser, dumb, not funny, not pretty, not interesting, lonely, without friends, you are going to get a bad boyfriend or husband if you even get one, he is not going to like your breasts, or your vulva looks funny, or your orgasm face will put him off and so on and so on. Of course, none of that is true - you are pretty, clever, attractive, funny, friendly, and any man will gladly spend time with you.
Part of becoming a healthy adult is to learn to just tune your inner critic off. Just ignore her. When you catch yourself falling for her nonsense, to just ignore it and reinforce the positive messages.
You may also suffer from a physical reaction to the sudden drop in feel good hormones and chemicals in your body. When you get excited and orgasm, feel good hormones and chemicals are released into your brain and body. This makes you happy, content and relaxed. Researchers have shown that the rapid drop of these chemical and hormone levels causes depression in women. This is however fairly short lived and you will return to normal in a few minutes.
Lastly, since you are spending time with the number one person in the world, take some time to enjoy it and to relax. After your orgasm, just lay there for a while thinking about how great life is, and how you have very special powers as a woman. Just enjoy the feeling for a short while, maybe even take a short nap.

Idk what’s wrong...???

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