Question for those that are currently pregnant

What were your cycles like pp? Any early symptoms that were different this time? I was getting my period from 6weeks pp every 28-30 days and my husband and I were being as careful as we could be since I’m not on birth control. Last week we got carried away and now I’m on cd35 with swollen breasts and a lot of bloating. Took a test today that was negative but I could almost swear there was a shadow