Is this weird?

Question

Is it weird that I have really only like guys that I'm close friends with? But when I like them a couple days after (without me telling anyone, maybe my bsf grace) one of my other friends ends up liking the person then I decide to keep my mouth shut because they are happy and their happiness is more important to me than my happiness is?

Answer

Have you heard of being demisexual/demiromantic? It’s basically what you’re describing and it’s possibly an explanation for that pattern.  I definitely tend to be that way... I’ll think someone is cute but I don’t develop an actual crush until I’m friends with them. Everyone is different, and it’s a totally okay way to be, don’t worry! 
Liking the same guy as your friend(s) can be tough. It used to happen to me and my friends all the time in middle/high school, so I’m assuming you’re somewhere in that age bracket, so pardon me if you aren’t! It’s been long enough now that I don’t remember what we did about it, but I do know none of us ended up with the guys we were crushing on back then anyway, but I am still friends with all the girls 😂 Your tastes will all develop differently as you get older and your dating pool will expand and it probably won’t be a problem. But don’t be afraid to speak up if you realize you like someone either; your feelings are just as important as theirs 💕

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