Was I wrong?

So back story , my bf & I have been together for a year now . Have our first child together on the way actually in March ( I have two other children ) our relationship been rocky on & off . If you go to my profile you’ll see SOME stuff . Found out he cheated on me in April by going through one of his old phones && I could trust him for a WHILLLLLE like omg .

... fast forward to last night . I went to the store last night in his car & normally that old phone is in his back window . He hasn’t used it since I broke the screen on it but last night it was on his front passenger seat so I was like hmm lemme look . I seen the old msgs of him and the girl he cheated on me with 🙄 but something tells me to go through his guys msgs ( I didn’t check those back in April ) and as I read I seen him ask 2 out of 3 of them to put him on a girl named Aysia . Never heard of her ! I even gave him a chance to tell me EVERYTHING after the situation in April but he never mentioned the aysia girl . So when I got home , I asked him very calm who she was/ has he tried talking to a girl named Aysia . He told me no flat out no . Okay so I left it alone . I swear I was calm , I wasn’t even mad I just wanted to know who she was & was he gone tell me the truth about intentionally tryna talk to her . But he said no . I laid I down . He then gets up goes to his car get the phone and starts going off on me like yelling. It’s like 11 pm my kids are sleep my sister is in the other room and mom is in her room . So I’m like why are you so mad he’s steadily going off saying I’m tryna cause problems and more but y’all I SWEAR on my life I wasn’t tryna argue I just wanted to know . He says he’s been committed to me since that last incident but I just wanna know why he’s so upset and yelling . So morning comes he gets up and leave. I hadn’t talked to him in 11 hours , he posts on Snapchat that he has a new number . So I’m like you couldn’t tell

Your gf/mother of your child that before telling the world. He responded “ you seen when everybody else seen since you wanna act like everybody else “ so now I’m like woooow ya know basically ask him what he wanna do to let me know so I can adjust . We have 14 weeks left until our baby is here , I have no time for PPD after her because he wanna send mixed signals at the wrong time . But I wanted to know should I have just not said anything & just left it alone ? My intentions were good when I asked the question I swear they were because we’ve been so good I just wanted to know did I g too far or what .