Anyone else feel this way?

Question

People are always telling me 
“You’re young and you need to live life before you have kids”(I’m 22 and married btw) 
“At least you don’t have to be up all night with a new baby”
“Well you don’t have to go through the pain of labor at least” 
“You don’t have to deal with changing diapers, sick babies or anything else that comes with have little ones” 
What they don’t get is, I would give anything to have/go through all of that. I pray and beg to be pregnant and have a healthy baby everyday. I’ve lost 3 babies anywhere from 6-11 weeks. I want to be up all night. I want to change diapers and listen to them cry. I want to go through the pain of labor. 
Sorry guys I just needed to vent...

Answer

I think because people are having babies older others just don't understand that you want them. When I told my friend we were trying after a m/c back in Jan she was like why? Don't you want to travel? Don't you want to lose weight? You'll be giving up your life... I was 26 at the time, now 27 and ill be 28 before they're here. Even when I told her I was pregnant with twins she was like omg my friend was skinny when she got pregnant now she struggles with her weight (she's not big at all and I'm not massive) she went on about how I won't be able to work due to childcare blah blah. Honestly I've learnt that the people who do that are projecting their own ideals and fears onto your life. It really really got my back up because everything had a negative spin. I felt like none of my friends understood why I'd be crying every time my period came, none of them cared about me desperately wanting 2 lines. It sounds like you're in a good place and you're doing this for you so pay no mind to them. There's a great support network of women who understand on here, lean on us xx

Answer

Awe! I’m sorry that this is happening to you. 
Just remember that it is up to you and your husband about when  you guys are going to have a baby. It’s your life changing not anyone else’s. You guys will be the ones taking care of him or her rather then just seeing the child every once in a while. 
I’m sorry that you are going through loosing  the babies and i hope that things start to get better for the two of you. Your time will come when! Just stay strong if you can, don’t give up!

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