Would you help him ?

So I don’t currently work but do have money saved and other money my husband has given me and from a few jobs I have done. My husband works everyday and he does have good saving we’re not living paycheck to paycheck. But pretty much the money he gives me (about 30 every month ) and he is for things like makeup etc.and he does pay food and NEEDS NOT WANTS

The question is..... today he paid for my secret Santa present (70) and he got my luggage (70) because he broke my old one, and I helped him with 40( since I don’t have a lot ) and we also changed some coins that we usually split (30) and he kept that money ... sometimes I do think he’s cheap and he cares about spending money on me it thinks it’s too much... do you think it was ok for me to helped him with that or he should’ve paid all since I currently don’t have a job ...