Terrified about labor with baby #2 😂

So with my first daughter I had a different doctor who never really discussed a birth plan with me and I didn’t know we needed to. So when I went in to labor when I was 2cm the nurse gave me some type of medication that put me to sleep because of how loopy I was and I felt nothing, but never said what it was or asked if I wanted it. They even had to wake me up to do the epidural when I was a 4, which I fell asleep in the middle of. And then I slept up until they woke me up to tell me I needed to push.

So that being said, what in the hell did this lady give me lol.

And I’m not sure if I want to be that out of it the second time around, but I’m scared of how much it will hurt. Has anyone else had this happen? And what are some good pain management exercises that have worked for you guys who are as big of a baby about pain as me? Lol