painful sex still 8 months post c section

wondering if I should make an appointment to the OB.. my son was born via emergency c section after a long and hard natural labor on 3/31. ever since I gave birth (and a throughout pregnancy really) I have despised sex. its painful and not enjoyable at all. its only decent when I'm drunk 😑 we tried different lubes, coconut oil, you name it! it's just so painful. even a finger hurts 😭 I am still exclusively breastfeeding on demand so probably 10 or more times in 24 hours. no period yet. what is wrong with me 😭 I feel bad for my husband so I just do it anyways but it is not enjoyable at all and I just wait till it's over 😭