I want to stop breastfeeding

My daughter is 8 months old. I exclusively breastfed till 3 months and she takes about 3-4oz bottles/formula three times a day at daycare.. but sometimes she refuses a bottle.

I still breastfeed in the morning and evening but the problem is she wants to nurse at night and sometimes 3-4 times every night.

It’s been hard because we cosleep and she can smell my milk.. some nights when im exhausted husband takes her and she sleeps just fine.. I think it’s just a habit of hers now..

Her schedule now is

7 am nurse

9:00yogurt and sometimes cheerios or bread

11:00 bottle sometimes refuses or drink 2oz

2:00 bottle

3:30 baby food

4:30 -5 bottle

7pm baby food

7:30 nurse

8:30 sometimes eats from moms plate (broccoli or some chicken)

9:00 nurse before bed

She doesn’t like cereal in her bottle so I add oatmeal to her food

I think she’s eating enough, she’s healthy.

And I really want to stop breastfeeding ..

I used to breastfeed during my lunch break around 2 but starting giving a bottle.

What am I doing wrong.. Im just so tired. I feel bad , am I selfish for wanting to stop breastfeeding? She loves it but momma is done.

How can I stop her for wanting to nurse at night? I ve heard of this product.. I think I’ll try it

It claims to help wean baby off quickly because of the taste and smell