Am I wrong?

JJ

I’m 6 months pregnant, SAHM to a 2.5 year old. My husband has been playing in this men’s hockey league for 15 years, before we even met, the games are every Sunday morning at either 9, 10, 11 am or noon and the games are an hour long. No matter what time my husbands game is at he aims to be at the rink for 8:30 (likes to see everyone, watch the other games etc) there’s a clubhouse that all the guys go to beside the rink after and just drink all day. I used to not care but then we had our son and I didn’t want to do all day Sunday 100% solo, I feel like I get him home full time two days a week (sat and sun) and I needed more help/support with a newborn so we compromised that he would only stay after to drink every other Sunday. Now that I’m 6 months pregnant with a toddler to take care of I’m done. Even when he doesn’t stay to drink he’s gone by 8 am and not back until after nap time. Im exhausted, I’m in pain, I’m impatient with our son, I’m worn out. I’m not doing every other Sunday by myself anymore, I refuse and he thinks I’m ridiculous. Our son goes to bed every night at 7 and I told him he’s MORE than welcome to go out after bedtime or hell even before dinner, like at least be around for the BULK of the day? Have I turned into the controlling bitchy wife I always told myself I wouldn’t?!

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